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I have Prosopagnosia

December 12, 2019 by Lazy Man 19 Comments

It’s true. I’m pretty sure that I have Prosopagnosia and I’ve had it a lot longer than 4 hours. I’ve had it my whole life in fact. I’m not running to the doctor though.

Prosopagnosia is often referred to as face-blindness. My ability to recognize faces is simply not like most other people’s. It’s terrible. It’s not like I mistake my friends for my wife or anything like that. It’s just that given two similar faces, I can’t tell them apart. For example, when watching a movie, I’ll confuse Leo DiCaprio and Matt Damon or I won’t recognize Scarlett Johansson when she is a brunette. I may recognize that Morena Baccarin looks familiar in an episode of Numbers, but not place her as the popular character Inara in Firefly/Serenity, a series I’ve seen twice and the a movie I’ve seen probably around 40 times (yes, I really enjoy it that much). The problem for me? Baccarin cut her hair very, very short after the Firefly/Serenity.

The problem that I have with movies is that there aren’t contextual clues to help me. Since I only seem to have a mild form and real life seems to contain plenty of contextual clues it rarely becomes an issue. On rare occasions though, a person will be in a place where I didn’t expect them and the trigger might not go off that I know them. It’s times like these that I probably come off as a royal snob.

My point to all this? I want to raise awareness of it in general. Most people don’t know it exists. However for a better read check out Nate St. Pierre’s excellent post on the topic.

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  1. The Digerati Life says

    December 22, 2010 at 5:06 pm

    Are you serious? Wow. I heard about this but don’t know anyone who has this. Sounds exotic. There is NO WAY I would mix up Matt Damon and Leo Di Caprio. Maybe you are just mixing up names — if so, then that would just be a memory problem. I would love to know who else confuses you. I hope you don’t mix me and Cap up. After all, we sorta look alike??! lol

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    • Lazy Man says

      December 22, 2010 at 5:17 pm

      I actually think that Leo and Matt are the same person much like Superman and Clark Kent. Speaking of Superman and Clark Kent, I think there should be some conspiracy theory about someone adding something to the water of Metropolis causing everyone to have Prosopagnosia. Back to Leo and Matt, I know Matt was in Good Will Hunting and Leo was in Titanic. I don’t really mix up their careers, but they are both baby-faced blond guys in my mind. I think if you went to one with a part and he was busy, you’d just go to the other, right?

      You and Cap look nothing alike.

  2. Rob says

    December 22, 2010 at 7:30 pm

    I didn’t know there was a name for that sort of thing. I am absolutely awful at telling people apart… I can relate one hundred percent. Famous people, acquaintances, doesn’t matter… if there are any feature similarities, I’m toast.

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  3. Ben says

    December 22, 2010 at 8:20 pm

    I can never remember anyone’s name, even just a few minutes after I’m introduced I forget their name. Is there a name for that condition : )

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  4. Cathie says

    December 23, 2010 at 6:22 am

    I can totally see the Leo/Matt mix-up. And I do believe my husband suffers from this problem as well. He doesn’t know who anyone is except for Selma Hayak. Who can blame him, really?

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  5. Kosmo @ The Soap Boxers says

    December 23, 2010 at 6:36 am

    I hadn’t heard of this before.

    I have problems related to the mental rotation of images. I’m not sure of name for it, but the inability to mentally rotate images causes me to have a horrible sense of direction. If it’s dawn or dusk, I can work things out by the sun, but drop me in a field at noon, and I’ll have no idea which way is north.

    I also have an inability to remember individual features. Quiz me on whether my co-works have blonde or brunette hair and I’ll probably struggle to get 50% right. I have no problems actually recognizing faces most of the time (“hey, that’s Bob!”)and I can tell if people made changes (new hair color, new glasses, got ride of glasses). Essentially, I can retrieve the facial image for comparison purposes (does A=B?) but I can’t iterrogate it for specific attributes. This drives my wife nuts (“What do you mean you don’t know if Amy is the blonde one?”) but generallt isn’t that big of a deal. I tend to think of people in abstract ways anyway (their occupation, interests, quirky sayings, etc) so it’s not a huge problem.

    More blah blah blah about this @ http://goo.gl/jeOn3

    If you’ve gotten this far in life with prosopagnosia, I think you’re in good shape and should be able to find a way to deal with it :)

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  6. [email protected] says

    December 23, 2010 at 7:02 am

    Odd, I have the opposite–I recognize faces, but can’t remember the names that go with them. :)

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    • Lazy Man says

      December 23, 2010 at 10:44 am

      Cathie, next you are going to tell me that Selma Hayak and Penelope Cruz are different people ;-). You silly goose.

      Kosmo, I would hope that if I quiz you whether your co-worker has blonde or brunette hair you wouldn’t struggle that much to get 50% right? It’s seriously bad when you can’t beat random chance. :-) (For readers who don’t know, I’m friends with Kosmo, so I can take good-natured jibes like this.)

      I am directionally challenged like you. I have to drive to a place at least 5 or 6 times in a span of a week or two before I know my way there. And if I don’t go back in a couple of months, I can’t get back. However, I’m pretty good with rotating images, especially in those IQ tests. I don’t know what to make of that.

  7. Andy Hough says

    December 23, 2010 at 1:54 pm

    It is Salma Hayek not Selma and she doesn’t look anything like Penelope Cruz although they are both hot Latinas. The movie Banditas would have been very confusing to you. I guess Departed was confusing too.

    Serenity is a good movie but it was a disappointment to me after watching the Firefly series. Firefly is one of my favorite shows ever.

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    • Lazy Man says

      December 23, 2010 at 2:11 pm

      The Departed was very confusing for me. It’s one of the reasons why I am one of the few people who think it is quite horrible.

      What did you find disappointing about Serenity? I thought it did a great job of packing what would have been a whole second season into a couple of hours. I also thought it was quite quotable.

  8. kosmo @ The Soap Boxers says

    December 23, 2010 at 5:58 pm

    “Kosmo, I would hope that if I quiz you whether your co-worker has blonde or brunette hair you wouldn’t struggle that much to get 50% right? It’s seriously bad when you can’t beat random chance.”

    I’m betting I wouldn’t be much over 60%. If I remember, it’s because they’ve someone drawn attention to it verbally (“Oh, I’m so blonde”). Pretty bad.

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  9. Bret @ Hope to Prosper says

    December 26, 2010 at 11:10 am

    Lazy Man,

    I also have Prosopagnosia and it’s no joke. It’s so embarrasing to not recognize people when they come up to greet you. It often causes me to panic, which just makes everything worse. Before I learned what it was last year, I thought I was losing my mind.

    For those who don’t know about Prosopagnosia, it’s a very real condition and around a million people suffer from it. From my experience, it’s not fun at all. Sometimes, I can’t even recogmize people I’ve known for years, if they change their hairstyle or have aged. Often, I recognize their voice before I can recognize their face. If you don’t have Prosopagnosia, be thankful.

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    • Lazy Man says

      December 26, 2010 at 2:54 pm

      Wow, I am very thankful that my condition is so mild. It was at the point that I didn’t think of it as a real condition until I read more about it. You are right, it is seriously not fun at all especially because the expectation is that you recognizes faces like most everyone else.

  10. rainbow heart says

    January 5, 2011 at 4:05 pm

    I have struggled with face recognition all of my life. I am trying to re-learn how to drive but I have a feeling that I might need a file of directions to places that I go for a while. I have little sense of direction too. I tried an on-line face test and flunked (Yale research site) and a directions one too (flunked it too.)

    My most memorable face problem was when a co-worker shaved his hair off. I heard a familiar voice (that I new the name of) coming from a stranger’s face. GRRR.

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  11. Peter Davey says

    June 16, 2012 at 10:48 pm

    On one ship where I served, the Sonar chief was a bald man named Sam. But when we were in port another guy took over, who was a young chap with sandy hair with a bit of a wave at the front – a sort of quiff. To make matters confusing, he was also called Sam.

    I’d been onboard three or four months before I discovered that Sam only wore his hairpiece when we were in port.

    When I left the services I spent some time in industry. At my place, the Purchasing Manager and the Purchasing Director were both tall men with moustaches. I could distinguish them when they were together but again it was about three months before I could positively identify either of them in isolation. Once I had the identification nailed, they seemed to me to be completely different. I suppose that’s what most people see from the word go.

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    • Peter Davey says

      December 13, 2019 at 4:47 am

      On another occasion, a friend I knew well shaved off his full beard. Having known him years before (before he grew it) I didn’t notice he’d shaved off :-)

      PD

    • Lazy Man says

      December 13, 2019 at 12:11 pm

      Wow! That seems like the opposite of face blindness to me.

      I’ve always thought this wasn’t a binary thing, but more of a spectrum one. That’s why I say I have mild face-blindness.

      It seems like researchers are still figuring this all out.

  12. Jackie says

    December 12, 2019 at 1:58 pm

    I have it too, although it sounds like worse than you. For example, I’m frequently unable to find my husband if we’re in a crowd and he moves a few feet away. If he wasn’t where he was before, it was like he disappeared, even though he might only be 2 feet away and looking right at me.

    This isn’t to say I don’t ever recognize people though: I just don’t ever do it by their faces. A friend of mine who used to live nearby has it too, but we always recognized each other. She knew me because of my dog that I’d always have with me, and I knew her because my dog recognized the woman on the bike or in the white car. Voices, colorful hair, or signature clothes are super helpful too!

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    • Lazy Man says

      December 12, 2019 at 6:58 pm

      Yep, that’s worse than me. I use all the contextual clues as well.

      A person in a location that I don’t expect often gets me too. I do a lot of dog sitting and clients bring their dogs by and I can recognize them in the context of their dogs (and the schedule with them to be at my home). At a grocery store, without the dog, I’m clueless, and these people probably think I’m being extremely rude.

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