You might have noticed that I haven’t been publishing much this week. I’ve lived 85% of my life in Boston’s suburbs. Six years ago, I moved to San Francisco, but I was fortunate enough to be able to move back to New England in the last couple of months. I might have went a little over the top with my feelings about moving back home – Boston does that to you.
Many of the long time readers are familiar with my (quite possibly overly obnoxious) pride I’ve taken in Boston, in particular Boston sports. I remember clearly writing to one my friends who lives out of town how much I was looking forward to watching the Red Sox game on Monday morning, the earliest game on the MLB calendar every year. It’s was Patriot’s Day, the biggest holiday in Boston.
I remember the Red Sox winning that morning on a walk-off double. It seems like three months ago since Boston celebrated like that.
I wasn’t going to write about the Boston Marathon bombings. I didn’t want to believe it for awhile. It’s easier for me to think of an explosion as an accident like the San Bruno Pipeline Explosion that was just a few miles from me in CA. I simply can’t comprehend evil without conclusive evidence, so I shook it off. Within hours, it was clear that it wasn’t an accident.
Many people have asked me if I was okay as news of the bombings hit. I appreciated the concern, but I explained that I live far enough from Boston now to put me well out of harm’s way.
And then came Watertown…
When I said I lived in Boston’s suburbs a vast majority of my life, I mean a city adjacent to Watertown. I’ve shopped at Ann & Hope at the Arsenal Mall hundreds of times. I waited in line at the DMV across the street for hours. If you saw Andrea’s House of Pizza on the news (big blue lighted awning), let me tell you, they have tremendous pizza.
This hit me closer to home than the marathon bombing.
There’s never such a thing as good timing with something like this, but for me and my family, it was particularly poor timing. Living far enough from Boston wasn’t going to work on Friday morning. My six month old had surgery scheduled at Children’s Hospital at 7AM. We had to be at the hospital by 5:30AM so they could prepare. We got up at 3AM to the news of the car chase through Watertown.
No one knew what was going on, so we proceeded to the as planned. As we drove in, we learned that the first suspect had died at Beth Isreal, a hospital very close to Children’s. The trip was very uneventful. When we arrived we talked to all the nurses, anesthesiologists, doctors and sent off Little Man to surgery. A half-hour into surgery, we got word that the hospital was on lockdown, like all of Boston and several suburbs.
It is around this point when I thought, “This is terribly inconvenient.” Perhaps my thoughts were a little stronger as I was low on sleep. It was at that point, I noticed a few people to the left of my wife and I in the waiting room. They were wearing purple shorts with a well-designed logo reading, “Rowan – Army Strong.” I hadn’t thought much about it until I heard one say that they had an update on Rowan. Not one to make a scene, I typed out a note on my cell phone to my wife saying, “See those people?” Before I got too far she had written back, “Be thankful we don’t have T-shirts made up for Little Man.”
I was. We were in for a very common procedure that, as far as surgery goes, was one of the least risky ones. Spending a few extra hours in the hospital is a grain of sand in comparison to what people have been through over the last week.
I’ve been thinking about how to explain how it felt when they finally caught the guy. Maybe it would be like if you combined a lifetime of 4th of July celebrations into 5 minutes that would be it. Even the FCC gets it, ignoring the David Ortiz’ obscenity.
On this blog, things will return to normal. Actually, after 7 years of blogging, I’ll be making a significant change. Look for an announcement in the next day or so. I think you’ll like it.
Your site has been one of my favorites for the last five years. I check in daily for a healthy dose of intelligence, common sense and pure entertainment.
How you remain so polite in the face of such rudeness and stupidity is beyond me, but so admirable of you. There are times when I want to cyber-stomp some of the scam artists you deal with for their obscene failure at being human beings. However, there isn’t much I can add to your calm and rational responses. I do get to sit on the sidelines and cheer when Vogel (and others) swoop in to administer a much needed smack down to the twisted and smarmy logic of the scammers.
Thank you for letting us know your first hand experiences last week and I’m happy to hear that you and your family (especially little man…surgery!?!) are safe and well.
I apologize for going off topic, but you once had a thread asking for ideas to increase your revenue. If you ever find the time, I think there is a need for some basic financial advise in book form, written in your voice. You have such a practical way of approaching the ever changing rules of money management and there are so many ways to lose hard earned and saved money these days to legal fees and services, let alone the scary and borderline ways that should be illegal. Of course, I have no idea how feasible and profitable another finance book would be in this time of blogs, but I know you would write a good one.
I have one other suggestion, but you seem to possess the type of humility that would prevent you from doing this: A donation button. You joked about it once, but I think it would be a good idea, and I, for one, would contribute. You put a lot of time and thought into this blog and I have gained so much from it without contributing anything but a few clicks when I remember to turn off ad-block.
Best of luck and success to you Lazy Man.
Lazy Man says
Patty, this is probably one of the best comments I’ve ever received. I can’t say how much it means to me to hear that I’ve been entertaining (in any capacity) over the last five years.
I often have to count to ten before responding to the scam artists. As far as being polite, I figure that if I can’t be professional on my own site, no one else will, right?
There’s no problem with going off-topic… I appreciate it.
I’d love to write a book of financial advice in my voice. If you know of a good publisher willing to give me a deal, I’ll definitely consider it. I could try self-publishing, but distribution is always a problem there. Your vote of confidence about me writing a good book definitely helps. In fact, I’ll send you a private email with my ideas on an alternative.
I had a donation button for a little while back five years ago, and it didn’t do so well. Maybe it will do better now. As you mention, I’m pretty humble, but I’ve started to change to my opinion. You might have noticed that from my article: http://www.lazymanandmoney.com/thank-you-i-see-you/
As for you not contributing anything, this one comment is far more valuable to me than money.