My fiancee has gotten the position in San Francisco. It's a huge promotion for her and will mean more money for us (provided that I can find a software engineering job in the software engineering capital of the world). I'm sure that sounds like I'm justifying it, but it could mean a great promotion for me as well. If I had to choose, I wouldn't be moving, so I have to get that out in the open. Given that the plan is to be out there for 2 years and then get back to Boston, I think I can deal with it.
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